geowench ([personal profile] geowench) wrote2019-03-02 11:50 am

February 2019#3

 On the last day of February our visas for Czechia arrived!  Holy crap. We were both stunned.  And today we have just finished ordering plane tickets and reserving an AirBnB apartment for two months.  We leave March 19th, so in only two weeks.  However, we are only going for two months, because i1) t was waaaaay more expensive to book a one way flight and 2) E decided he didn't want to leave the house empty for longer than two months and, 3) we will both need to come back and stock up on meds.  So we will come back for a week or so and then pack up again and go again until probably the beginning of August.  So less than 6 months instead of a full year, and hardly worth all the nonsense about the visas ... but at least we are going at last.

Otherwise February was a long, dreary, and very cold month.  I think the university closed three times in Feb for icy conditions, and it's truly been a very unpleasant month, much colder than normal, and much colder than Prague has been, which is truly weird.  The month was made more unpleasant by E having one of his periodic freak outs about work and his career, and my own rather deep funk following an unexpected letter from my Aunt.

My Aunt is my father's sister, and we keep in sporadic contact, maybe 2-3 letters a year.  She sent me some letters and photos that my father gave her to send me.  They were from my mother, dated 1972/73 and begging my grandmother to allow her to come back to the states.  There were also two letters from when I was a newborn, dated July and August of 1967 (so clearly I was born in June or July, not September), assuring my father that all was well and how much she loved him.  

So I didn't do much in Feb except try to survive.  No socializing.  Just work and then come home and numb myself with a book or Netflix and maybe some whiskey laced hot chocolate.  It was too damn cold/icy to meet my walking goal (although I did better than expected, coming pretty close).  I did meet my ab workout goal of 8 workouts in Feb (I actually managed 9).  And I didn't create anything although I spent a fair bit of time plotting out some ideas for writing projects.  But hey.  It's March.  And I'm going to Prague in two weeks!
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[personal profile] mrs_redboots 2019-03-02 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't yet decided what we are doing for our long May holiday - my father is dying, which is making life rather awkward as we can't make too many long-term plans at the moment, plus this dreadful "Brexit" affair. All the same - are you likely to be in Prague around the end of May? If so, I might head us towards the Czech Republic after the international adult skating event in Oberstdorf.... it would be great to meet you after all these years! I do hope that the longer days - and the prospect of your trip - will help you feel you are living, rather than merely surviving!
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[personal profile] mrs_redboots 2019-03-03 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)

It would be great to meet up if and when you come to London!  I will let you know what our dates are when I know them, but that will be some weeks yet.

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[personal profile] old_black 2019-03-03 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. You've really had the rug pulled from under you. Your birthday is not your birth day?! What more is there to come? Prague will be a great place to get away from your current world for a while and explore something a bit more exotic and ?lively than OK (and heading for over 50 degrees today I see). I'm really looking forward to reading your reports (no pressure!).

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[personal profile] old_black 2019-03-03 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, please, tell me about Prague. I used to know a taxi driver, Jedek, who I would meet at ~4 am on my run to work. He would be parked at a big hotel waiting for a fare. (https://oldblack.wordpress.com/2014/10/22/jedek/) He had lived in Prague and spoke affectionately of it, but I'd love to hear a foreigner's (non-European) perspective.

[personal profile] srb 2019-03-06 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm excited for you that it's finally happening!

And WTF, aunt? Why now?
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[personal profile] fineplan 2019-03-12 03:11 pm (UTC)(link)
That is... wild. I'm not sure I would have wanted those mementos after all this time? Just seems like they would cause more pain and confusion? But I could totally be wrong.
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[personal profile] fineplan 2019-03-16 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
That's true too...